Hi Meg! If the stool is soft then having a BM everyday or every other day is nothing to worry about. The baby might be distressed simply because of being in a harness. Breastfeeding probably helps a lot to soothe her. Vaishali Kute, MD FAAP Chattahoochee Pediatrics Alpharetta GA *********************************************** To temporarily stop your subscription: set lactnet nomail To start it again: set lactnet mail (or digest) To unsubscribe: unsubscribe lactnet All commands go to [log in to unmask] The LACTNET mailing list is powered by L-Soft's renowned LISTSERV(R) list management software together with L-Soft's LSMTP(R) mailer for lightning fast mail delivery. For more information, go to: http://www.lsoft.com/LISTSERV-powered.html