A few additions to the nursing-in-public tricks: I remind mothers to nurse at the first sign the baby might want to nurse, because if you wait until the child is frantic and crying, everyone within earshot will be watching your every move. Secondly, I tell them not to "ask permission" or announce what they are about to do, because it makes people nervous. They likely fear that your breasts are about to come out and they don't know how they should respond. If you simply go ahead and do what needs to be done, your nonchalant attitude puts others at ease. After all, you don't announce it when you are going to kiss the baby or ask if others are comfortable about other ways you care for the baby. Finally, I tell them if they time it correctly you can direct people *away* from you for those few seconds that it takes to get the baby latched on. "Look over there! Isn't that Mel Gibson?" Sheila Stubbs LLL Leader I learned the hard way to Birth the Easy Way! www.birthingtheeasyway.tk *********************************************** To temporarily stop your subscription: set lactnet nomail To start it again: set lactnet mail (or digest) To unsubscribe: unsubscribe lactnet All commands go to [log in to unmask] The LACTNET mailing list is powered by L-Soft's renowned LISTSERV(R) list management software together with L-Soft's LSMTP(R) mailer for lightning fast mail delivery. For more information, go to: http://www.lsoft.com/LISTSERV-powered.html