"The husband apparently wants 50% custody of the kids, including the new baby." Fine. When he carries the baby for 4.5 months of pregnancy, experiences 50% of the labor (the second 50%?), and can provide 50% of the normal nutrition for a newborn he might have a legitimate claim! Winnie *********************************************** To temporarily stop your subscription: set lactnet nomail To start it again: set lactnet mail (or digest) To unsubscribe: unsubscribe lactnet All commands go to [log in to unmask] The LACTNET mailing list is powered by L-Soft's renowned LISTSERV(R) list management software together with L-Soft's LSMTP(TM) mailer for lightning fast mail delivery. For more information, go to: http://www.lsoft.com/LISTSERV-powered.html