Here are a few more book suggestions on dealing with the loss of a baby. Empty Arms by Sherokee Ilse This book is good to give immediately after the death of a baby. It offers guideance the first few days and on. Empty Cradle, Broken Heart by Deborah Davis Coping with Infant or Fetal Loss: The couples healing process by Kathleen Gilbert and Laura Smart Mother Care: Physical Care and Beyond After a Baby Dies by Sherokee Ilse, Anderson and Funk. This book is a good book to give immediately after the death. When Hello Means Goodbye by Pat Schwiebert and Paul Kirk Denice Jentlie Mesa, AZ. *********************************************** The LACTNET mailing list is powered by L-Soft's renowned LISTSERV(R) list management software together with L-Soft's LSMTP(TM) mailer for lightning fast mail delivery. For more information, go to: http://www.lsoft.com/LISTSERV-powered.html