Sincere thanks to all Lactnetters who offered suggestions and advice on this situation. I have passed on the suggestions/information and hopefully this mum will be able to resolve her dilemma with some straight talking and compromise. I am very grateful for the swift responses and the interest shown. Thank you once again. Sincerely, Sue Lunn Lay BFC Somerset, UK *********************************************** The LACTNET mailing list is powered by L-Soft's renowned LISTSERV(R) list management software together with L-Soft's LSMTP(TM) mailer for lightning fast mail delivery. For more information, go to: http://www.lsoft.com/LISTSERV-powered.html