> Or, in the case of the fellow my DH met at church not long ago, the formula > rep's wife breastfed their children, leaving cases in their own garages. > But, as I pointed out, this doesn't excuse him or justify his choice of > career, > We should consider that it was *his* choice of career... Do we know what his wife thinks? Some wives don't have much say in these things. Perhaps we should assume that her own breastfeeding relationship was miraculously preserved in the face of his lack of support. Jo-Anne Elder-Gomes, former wife of a non-supporter; current wife of a man whose former wife was a non-supporter and non-bf-er *********************************************** The LACTNET mailing list is powered by L-Soft's renowned LISTSERV(R) list management software together with L-Soft's LSMTP(TM) mailer for lightning fast mail delivery. For more information, go to: http://www.lsoft.com/LISTSERV-powered.html