Marie I hear this all the time. I try to thwart this in bf classes and when I hear it by repeating something I heard or read somewhere: bonding occurs with skin to skin closeness. Dad and sibs can hold, cuddle, bathe etc with baby, especially babies love Dad's different feel (chest to chest) and deeper voice and vibrations etc. No need for bottles. Encourage Dads to allow mom to do her job and they bond with alot of cuddles. Laurie Wheeler, RN, MN, IBCLC Violet Louisiana, s.e. USA _________________________________________________________________ Get your FREE download of MSN Explorer at http://explorer.msn.com/intl.asp *********************************************** The LACTNET mailing list is powered by L-Soft's renowned LISTSERV(R) list management software together with L-Soft's LSMTP(TM) mailer for lightning fast mail delivery. For more information, go to: http://www.lsoft.com/LISTSERV-powered.html