Some questions? Does the baby co-sleep? Otherwise I assume Mom goes into another room to feed (no wonder she is tired!) Did Dad move into the other room because the baby was loud, or because they were not in agreement with there child rearing methods? It sounds like (possibly) there are some issues with mom and dad which may not entail the child at all. Just an idea. Tina BS soon to sit the exam *********************************************** The LACTNET mailing list is powered by L-Soft's renowned LISTSERV(R) list management software together with L-Soft's LSMTP(TM) mailer for lightning fast mail delivery. For more information, go to: http://www.lsoft.com/LISTSERV-powered.html