In response to mom's feeling touched out. When I used to teach childbirth classes we talked about this in class. There were two good pamphlets that I used. One was from Health Education Associates callled "Adjusting to Parenting" - and the other was called "101 Ways to Make Love Without Doing It" I don't remember where it was from, but it had lots of suggestions on how to keep the spark alive in a relationship. Sometimes I think people forget that "making love" is only a small part of a caring, long term relationship. *********************************************** The LACTNET mailing list is powered by L-Soft's renowned LISTSERV(R) list management software together with L-Soft's LSMTP(TM) mailer for lightning fast mail delivery. For more information, go to: http://www.lsoft.com/LISTSERV-powered.html