Carol says, << in another little article, the fantasy of the perfect mother and baby is described. "her baby would be perfect, too, and only cry on cue." i am desperately curious to know what "cry on cue" means. >> That's the baby that only cries when mom says cry. Mom determines when the crying starts and mom determines when the crying ends. Mom determines when the feed/nap/playpen time/high chair time/roomtime/couch time begins and mom determines when it all ends. Jan B. *********************************************** The LACTNET mailing list is powered by L-Soft's renowned LISTSERV(R) list management software together with L-Soft's LSMTP(TM) mailer for lightning fast mail delivery. For more information, go to: http://www.lsoft.com/LISTSERV-powered.html