my recollection of shb laying eggs on honey bees may be flawed, could have
been shb eggs observed attached to honey bees maybe after combcell cleaning
or something similar...here's more info links re:"sex,lies and beetles":

http://helix.nature.com/nsu/000504/000504-10.html

http://www.sfsu.edu/~pubaff/prsrelea/fy99/101.htm