Laurie, Your comment on how the mother absorbs (or doesn't absorb) information was balm to my tender heart. I once had a co-worker who used to chastise me terribly (and I saved the note) when mother's she saw were having problems the day after I worked with them. Of course she assumed that "I didn't do my job." And they WERE nursing fine when I saw them, or at least after I helped them. But sometimes they forget, or relax TOO much and something comes "disconnected." I post this for the reason that we all need to be supportive of one another and understand that mothers don't always take it all in at once. Mary Kay Smith, IBCLC Romeoville IL *********************************************** The LACTNET mailing list is powered by L-Soft's renowned LISTSERV(R) list management software together with L-Soft's LSMTP(TM) mailer for lightning fast mail delivery. For more information, go to: http://www.lsoft.com/LISTSERV-powered.html