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While it's not the same magnitude, a couple in my church had quads in early 2006.  For a year, we had the "Quad Squad" - a group of mostly ladies who volunteered their time to be at the house to help with the babies or with their two older children.  Others brought meals and I think they had supper provided to them for most of that first year.  Others did diaper or bottle-feeding duty.  I wanted to be able to help but I had young children who needed me at home and I was pregnant with my third and too sick to really be of any use.  I did send some meals in later months when I was feeling better.  The help was phased out slowly so the parents didn't go into shock when everyone no longer came.  We had heard that this has happened to other families of multiples - that help arrives and a few months later, disappears leaving the parents baffled & unable to cope.  This is the kind of help & support this family needs and I hope they have a loving church or neighbourhood community that can pitch in and help them out when they get home!

Margo

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