Dear Jody, check the LLLI web site re: legal issues.  I always remember Liz 
saying you get more bees with honey.  Mom needs to realize this is her life 
now, sharing her with baby's dad.  The judge will give dad visitation, with 
or without mom's cooperation, with or without mom's milk.  So she needs to 
offer acceptable alternatives, not road blocks.  She needs to be positive: 
yes, baby needs time to get to know dad.  Baby is breastfed and can  only be 
seaparated from mom easily for 2-3 hours while she is still so small.  So 2 
x a week for a few hours will work.  Offer a reasonable option, don't say 
baby can't be separated from mom at all.   Many moms of 4 mo olds are gone 
for 8-10 hours per day.  .

See someone  in LLL or an LC and learn how to hand express effectively. 
Start freezing that milk! 

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