Hi all,

Christine said: "This is a case where the problem with the research is that 
it starts out with the false premise that there is one age to introduce 
solids to all babies.  Some babies are ready for solids very early, like 
mine, and some not until much later.  I would like to see a study comparing 
babies given solids at six months, whenever they became ready, to babies who 
are given solids when they are ready."

And Jaye says: "However, I do have a baby reason: Baby is demanding it! 
(...) But, if your 4 month old is demanding to taste your food and drink 
your glass of water then it is possible that baby is ready a little sooner 
than the books say.  If your 7 month old could care less, then that is fine 
too - because apparently his body is saying it is too soon - so go with it. 
Like many other things, "Watch the baby" tends to fit pretty well here too."

**I have discussed this issue with collegues before, and to me, there was 
not really a satisfying conclusion. You know, we can look AT the baby, but 
we cannot look INSIDE the baby. A baby may be ready as far as gross motor 
skills are concerned, and because his mind is investigating the world, BUT 
when it comes to health and immunity... is his intestinal system ready?
A child demanding something, is in itself not a good reason to give in. They 
can demand all sorts of things that we deny them, because as a parent, we 
don't agree. A child asking or demanding sweets right before dinner, will 
not have its way, will it...? And a child with some kind of metabolic 
disorder will not be allowed to eat something that can not be tolerated, 
will it...? A child regarding the route to school as a playground and 
passing cars participants in the play, will not go on his bike all alone, 
will he...?
A child is not always able to find the right balance between what is wanted 
and what is wise or healthy. We put children to bed, because they have to be 
fit for school the next day, even if they are still enjoying what they're 
doing. Of course, a child asking for something ("Can I go to school on my 
own?") is indicating an interest that might fit its development and as a 
parent, you do well to be open to the thought of a new step. I always 
encourage the girls to explore new things; my confidence in them will 
nourish their confidence in themselves. Nevertheless, at the age of four 
months, a child may simply physically not be ready to digest solids as well 
as we would like for their health in the years to come.
Is there anyone among us who could shed some light on this issue? Are eager 
gross motor skills and an interested mind a trustworthy indication for 
instestinal maturation? Does gut closure always precede inquisitive faces, 
grabbing little hands and demanding screams, so to say...? ;o))
Keen on learning more about this,

kindly,

Marianne Vanderveen, Netherlands

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