In einer eMail vom 22-5-04 10:39:05 West-Europa (zomertijd) schreibt
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> I agree, Gonneke, that we can't 'make' women feel anything. But their
> bad feelings of resentment, disappointment, anger and so on, are
> translated by many into 'guilt'....and the 'wrong' sort of bf
> education can certainly increase that.
>

Yes, you're right. But that is what I will dicuss with parents and explain.
I will repeat and rephrase what I sense their feelings are and direct them
into the "whose is the guilt?" question and the "What exactly is it that you
feel?". That is imo the counseling side of the job.

Warmly greeting,

Gonneke van Veldhuizen, IBCLC, LLLL
Germany - The Netherlands

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