In einer eMail vom 30-3-2003 5:38:55 West-Europa (zomertijd) schreibt
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> population.  Her husband never knew that she was pregnant.  Her issues were
> totally different from other moms, and more than anything else, she wanted
> to breastfeed.  She is, and with the help of a shield, by the way.  Those of
> you who are working with families of POW's or soldiers stationed abroad need
> our support to help them help those moms. It is such heartbreaking work.
> If we can't share it here, then where can we?
>
>

If I may add, I'd like to share my feeling that discussing the challenges of
helping a mom with grief, preterme delivery and breastfeeding is fine.
Lactnet is just the place for that.
Neither the cause of her grief nor the exact circumstances that lead to it
are critical information for others to help the LC or HCP that wants to
discuss the breastfeeding related problems on this forum. Please do remember
that what feels as justice for one can be felt as injustice by others.
Please let's stick to the breastfeeding mother and child dyads.
Warmly greeting,

Gonneke

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Gonneke  van Veldhuizen
IBCLC,LLLL, MOM, primairyschool teacher

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eurolac
centre for breastfeeding information and education
<A HREF="http://www.geocities.com/gonneke29/">http://www.geocities.com/gonneke29</A>

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