Well, thank you Kathy--I think.

I've been doing a little blurb on female genital mutilation with my
circumcision lecture in Infant Care classes for years, so that wasn't new to
me.  What threw me was your saying that men sometimes didn't find it
pleasurable.  Is my inference correct: that you are *assuming* that it is
just a primal urge thing?  I think the nature of it, and his "wanting sex"
imply that it is still pleasurable for him, even though it falls a little
below our expectations.  ??

The things I'm learning on L-Net!!!   :>)

Nancy