I am sorry that I have forgotten the person who first
said this (at some conference session...) but the point
was pondered: what would be thought of a doctor (or
author!) who told a man  [with sexual dysfunction]
"Don't worry. Get a plastic one. It's the next best thing
to your own."
We wouldn't want the guy to feel guilty, now, would
we?
Margery Wilson, IBCLC