I would certainly agree that this M.D.'s behaviour was inappropriate. I feel
the most enlightening response would be to give her a copy of a journal
article related to the benefits of extended nursing (LLL info etc.) and
breastfeeding induced amenorrhea to read and pass on to her M.D. Lawrence
also covers this well as does Riordan, I believe. I would also encourage her
to inform her M.D. of her concerns re his behaviour in a manner in which she
is comfortable. (i.e. a note attatched to the article requesting a follow-up
to discuss the article and, if she chooses, his apparent upset as evidenced
by her husband in the waiting room.) If she doesn't receive any interest or
support for this I might suggest she "shop around" for a more kindred
spirit. Physicians, I remind my clients, are another service industry! They
are not gods!! I work in a Community Health Centre with several M.D.'s who
welcome new info. and I am sure would agree with this suggestion.
Here's hoping everyone learns and benefits from this approach. Diana
P.S. I only had 3 periods in 5 yrs with my 2 nursing children and my periods
were actually much more regular after my BF. days were over than before I
became pregnant. So reassure your client.