Just to be a little bit of a devil's advocate:
Is it fair to jump into 'how to parent' if someone asks about alcohol consumption?  I had a very uncomfortable experience in a LLL meeting when someone (who was REALLY struggling) asked that question.  She was lambasted by a Leader and ended up crying.  Turns out the Leader's father was an alcoholic, so she brought her own baggage into a simple question.  Anyway, apologies were offered, but it was still a bad scene.
Besides, the 'drug of choice' these days is not alcohol.  It is xanax, ativan and other meds prescribed by doctors.  There goes a whole 'nother issue.
 
Sincerely,
Melissa Senf RN, IBCLC, LLLL
 
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