In a message dated 11/25/03 7:57:09 AM Eastern Standard Time,
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I think that if we met a new bride who said "I find the idea of sex
distasteful" we wouldn't suggest to her that she find "alternate methods" for
her husband and plan to conceive through artificial insemination. We would
help her find the psychological roots of her problem (not personally, but
perhaps through therapy) because we feel that having a sexual relationship with her
husband would enhance both of their lives. I feel the same way about
breastfeeding.
Dear Friends:
    Didn't Teresa write a terrific paragraph?
    An adult man married to a woman that didn't want sex would have the
choice to leave the relationship. The baby's choice is to breastfeed.
    warmly,
Nikki Lee RN, MS, Mother of 2, IBCLC, CIMI, CCE, craniosacral therapy
Adjunct faculty, Union Institute and University, Maternal and Child Health:
Lactation Consulting
Supporting the WHO Code and the Mother Friendly Childbirth Initiative

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