"Because she still has a small child to care for, and that takes a ton of
>time and energy, and by the end of the day she is exhausted and "all
>touched out."  Tell her that her libido will come back up when her husband
>starts helping more!"
>Katherine A. Dettwyler, Ph.D.
  Exactly!  ~ Mary, mother of 8, whose husband is very helpful! (-: