In a message dated 98-07-20 21:42:13 EDT, you write:

<< I think it is important to
 give her some ideas about how she could more successful next time >>

I totally agree with not making waves.  How do you do the above without making
her feel like "she wasn't successful"? I will like to be able to know what to
say to moms and at the same time inform them w/o sounding awful.  I think this
is impotant so that a lot of myths can ce clarified and if a mom doesn't want
to BF or doesn't want ny more children at least she would have the correct
information for the next person.

See ya,
Yvonne
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Yvonne C. Bannister, IBCLC
Private Practice/Baby's BestFeeding
"A mother holds her baby . . . who lovingly holds her breast and gets the
best!"