On Mon, 14 Apr 2008 23:47:09 -0700, gonneke van veldhuizen
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>Dear friends,
><snip>In people with a different type of reaction this may cause
constrictions (decreasing bloodstream in the brains for example) and/or extra
movement (causing stomach and gut trouble like wanting to throw out, goose
flesh). In some people the troubles actually do occur with orgasms as well and
this is not definitely a sign of previous or current abuse!
>
>Warmly,
>
>Gonneke, IBCLC, LLLL in southern Netherlands, where a brave minister of
health announced that more children should be breastfed for 6 months and is
getting a bad press for it, poor man.
>
Thank your, Gonneke, for your addition, as well. In the case I presented, there
were other strong indications of abuse, not just the Oxy Release reaction. I
did not present all it it. Due to space and time constraints, and also out of the
need to keep the client in privacy.
This mom's therapist and the mom herself found quite a bit of evidence for
abuse in childhood. (And, in so many women, the ability to "not be present in
their bodies" or "blanking out" during orgasm or sex in general is very common
in sexual abuse situations. (Also known as "Depersonalization" in Psychological
terms.) This Depersonalization was, as far as we knew NOT common in most
to the Oxy Release, but to the sexual feelings experienced, along with the
already problem issues with Ejection and uncomfortable Somatic and Emotional
reaction. How this linked to the Oxy Release, I do not really know.
This client had the misfortune to have experienced, Over Active Ejection
Reflex, Possible "contradictory effects" from her Ejection, (as most women
become more calm ect) as well as having a past where she had been abused.
I did not mean to imply that all women who have strong negative effects
during Ejection have been abused. But, it is something to keep an eye out for.
I am sorry for the misunderstanding. :)
Mary Jozwiak IBCLC, RLC, LLLL
Private Practice
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