<<I totally agree there is a learning curve, but maybe part of the issue
is the pumping routine that "fits" the situation and tapping in to
support in the form of physical household helpers. >>

  Those things can be key to "doable" or not. >>

Wanted to comment on this as well.    That is a huge issue.  If someone
has even a little help around the house, it is the difference between
doable or not (if the help is helpful, anyway.  if not, well, that's
another discussion:))

Most of the specific cases I'm thinking of, there was truly no one else
to help.  No one.

katherine in atl

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