>In einer eMail vom 19-5-04 16:30:53 West-Europa (zomertijd) schreibt
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>>  But we need to be aware that for some people, it is hurtful to know
>>  breastfeeding is something they could have done....if only.  This is
>>  perfectly compatible with sharing good, truthful information.
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>Heather, I fully agree that we should not *purposely* use guilt in order to
>get changes. But our fear for another persons feelings of guilt for
>*consiously* choosing the wrong options should not keep us from
>saying the truth about
>infant feeding.


That is precisely what I said :)

But there is a view that we *should deliberately* use guilt.

And I am not comfortable with that approach.

Heather Welford Neil
NCT bfc, UK

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