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Date: | Wed, 4 Mar 1998 19:10:25 -0500 |
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Jenni,
I feel strongly that one thing we can do is help young mothers understand
about the "seasons of life." I sometimes ask a mother to think about the
brief time period in her life when she will have infants/toddlers as a
special season unlike any other. It is a very busy season, but it is a
time to draw back from other commitments. I remind her that in just a few
short years, that precious infant in her arms will be a school-aged little
boy or girl. I tell her that shortly, her infant will be walking,
exploring and beginning to become an independant little person.
On a personal level I can relate strongly to the mother who feels tied down
by motherhood, so maybe that helps a bit in my counseling. As a young
mother of 28 I left my enjoyable and challenging career of teaching high
school English to the cream of the crop kids in an Advanced Placement
program to "just be a mommy." I felt very tied down.
But it helps for a young mother to understand that the very fact of BEING a
mother will take her life in new, meaningful directions. I wonder how many
of us are in this challenging profession BECAUSE we are mothers? Many
times, once a mother knows she can honestly confide her frustrations and
mixed feelings about motherhood in you, she will begin to resolve the
issues herself.
I hope this helps, and I will look forward to further discussion on this
issue.
Warmly
Glenni Lorick, BSE, IBCLC
Lima Peru
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