Hey, Tim, I learned the hard way that there are some people on this
list one cannot characterize as well wishers. A recently mis-posting
of mine was gleefully forwarded to certain parties by people with
evil in their hearts despite my having quickly apologized and made it
clear that the message was personal. Okay, so people might read such
things avidly, but there was no need for busy-bodies to cause
additional trouble and pain. But some people get off on that sort
of thing.
At least you don't have to work in the same field or building as the
person who was the angry recipient of your forwarded message.
Best,
Mary B.