Let your audience figure it out for themselves. Draw out a large chart, two columns wide and three rows down. Label the columns 'Breastfeeding' and 'Bottle Feeding'. Down the side, label the rows 'Mom', 'Dad', and 'Baby'. Then ask your audience to tell you their favorite benefits while you write their answers in the appropriate squares. Make it a brainstorming session. You probably won't have to make too many editorial comments other than to question certain statements by asking WHY they think one person (baby) is benefitted and rethink exactly WHO is really benefited. The result: the square for Baby under Bottle Feeding will be completely empty. This works well at mom's groups (LLL) but I see no reason why it won't work for others. Phyllis Adamson, BA, IBCLC Private Practice - Glendale, AZ [log in to unmask] *********************************************** The LACTNET mailing list is powered by L-Soft's renowned LISTSERV(R) list management software together with L-Soft's LSMTP(TM) mailer for lightning fast mail delivery. For more information, go to: http://www.lsoft.com/LISTSERV-powered.html