My 2nd daughter was hyperaware of her 1st baby in bed early on, but by about middle of first year they were sleeping together. She had seen family bed modeled, is totally into attachment parenting, wearing the baby etc. so who knows why it bothered her. By 2nd baby she was so tired that she had no problems family bedding it :-) And lots of my bottle feeding moms family bed it, culturally that is their norm. Go figure. Sincerely, Pat in SNJ *********************************************** The LACTNET mailing list is powered by L-Soft's renowned LISTSERV(R) list management software together with L-Soft's LSMTP(TM) mailer for lightning fast mail delivery. For more information, go to: http://www.lsoft.com/LISTSERV-powered.html