I didn't mean to imply that LLLI says you should not set any rules with toddlers. I think I was just taking what I'd learned at meetings about babies and interpreting it to go with toddlers, too, until I read the statement in the book about socializing toddlers. -Lucy *********************************************** The LACTNET mailing list is powered by L-Soft's renowned LISTSERV(R) list management software together with L-Soft's LSMTP(TM) mailer for lightning fast mail delivery. For more information, go to: http://www.lsoft.com/LISTSERV-powered.html