okay, while we are off the topic, i will just point out that my SU (spousal unit) cleans the main bathroom, does all the laundry, cleans up after all cooking even when he does the cooking, and many other household chores. of course i do some of the work around here, it takes quite a bit of effort to look decorative at all times. carol brussel IBCLC laura nevada lactation denver co *********************************************** The LACTNET mailing list is powered by L-Soft's renowned LISTSERV(R) list management software together with L-Soft's LSMTP(TM) mailer for lightning fast mail delivery. For more information, go to: http://www.lsoft.com/LISTSERV-powered.html