To Faylene in Montana, and all, Sounds like you are in a tight spot with this couple! The Dad may be interested in some of the dental/jaw development benefits for breast fed babies, that fewer of them require orthodontia when older (not a blanket guarantee, but fewer breast fed children require braces compared to their bottle fed peers). How the action of the thrusting of the lower jaw during suckling at breast is healthy for the jaw and helps for a better bite for upper and lower teeth. Also a lesser rate of snoring and sleep apnea among breast fed people, see the June 1998 JHL for Brian Palmer's dental research. Also American Journal of Preventive Medicine 1987 p.227-232. I'm having trouble with some of this fine print, I'm trying to quote from some material from Bright Future Lactation Resource Center, compiled by Linda Smith (coach). Maybe you can get it. I sometimes tell parents that the first couple of weeks of breastfeeding can be difficult, it is a learning time for both mother and baby, neither have ever breastfed before! But it usually becomes easier with practice, baby learns how to nurse and mom's become more comfortable handling baby and her body gets practice making milk and letting down. Good luck, let us know what happens! Susan Potts Rn IBCLC Minnesota ___________________________________________________________________ You don't need to buy Internet access to use free Internet e-mail. Get completely free e-mail from Juno at http://www.juno.com/getjuno.html or call Juno at (800) 654-JUNO [654-5866]