Cathay and lactnetters, Yes, in essence it comes down to supporting the mother *where she is*, doesn't it. That same Mum who achieves a little bit of BF this time, may feel more confidence to take more steps forward with a future baby - or tell her friends where to find a LC, you. Cheers, Virginia (Thorley) ______________________________________________________ Get Your Private, Free Email at http://www.hotmail.com