I tried to get into the archives to search for this, but haven't been able to connect. Are there books, videos or other teaching tools out there that could increase my knowledge- base on suck? I think I'm doing all right... I recognize normal suck and the obviously abnormal.... I think there are things in between that I'd like to learn about. I haven't been to any workshops on the subject, and don't see an offered in my area during the next few months. Any ideas? TIA :) from Susan in Iowa (is this heaven?) "What you permit, you promote"