Hi All, I have gotten a few responses re: my toddler weaning question. The advice so far has been great, and I thank you, but I guess I wasn't really clear about the problem. To rephrase my previous post on toddler weaning, let me give some more specific details. These moms have tried distracting, substitution, etc. They are already in the mess of a baby demanding to BF,it is too late to plan for toddler weaning, how do we save them now? Moms feel they are between a rock and a hard place. The baby seems to be in a bad habit and can't seem to switch into a good sleep cycle (if bottle feeding baby, would be stuck on a paci all night) and leave mom alone. It is not an intermittant type of thing happening only when under stress, but a constant all the time everyday/night kind of thing. Any ideas on how to save them now? TIA! Jay Simpson, CLE Sacramento, CA "No Miracles performed here, just a lot of love and hard work." ICQ#4681696