Frances: It is great that you are taking up this topic & honoring dads! How about something from the angle of a 'breastfeeding' daddy being the first one to teach baby that a person can provide love without the food! I can't remember where I first heard that (might just have been here!) but it has done wonders for those dads asking about giving a bottle to 'really' be involved! Debbie Shinskie RN CES IBCLC in Millersburg, PA, USA [log in to unmask] http://www.epix.net/~shinskie/ "The cure for anything is salt water - sweat, tears, or the sea." -Isak Dinesen