Carol, Be very careful. There was a man several years ago who called a lot of us, posing as a dad, and asking a lot of breastfeeding questions, AND about relationships, breasts, pregnant tummies, etc. His wife could never come to the phone for various reasons. Some people actualy sent him pictures of pregnant tummies that he was asking about to help ease his anxieties! He was VERY charming and convincing. It turned out he was a fraud. Be VERY careful when you cannot talk to the wife herself, on the phone, not on-line. Ask that she call you when she is available. Don't talk much to a man or give him much info, especially about intimate things, breasts, sex, etc. Some people get their kicks this way. If he is legitimate his wife will be able to talk to you, live and in person on the phone-- not on-line. BEWARE, BEWARE, BEWARE. This sounds very fishy and much too familiar to the other situation. AND don't refer him to a lot of other people without warning them about this possibility and the need to assure his credibility. Jane Bradshaw RN, BSN, IBCLC I just had an on-line talk with a man in Princeton, NJ whose wife is pregnant. He had alot of "male" questions about bf & its impact on their relationship. Nothing really raunchy, I believe he truly wants info, & was embarrassed to ask someone face to face.