I usually advise mothers who have stupid family members asking them "How long will you nurse that baby?".... The answer? [mom looks at watch]...oooooh, for about 5 minutes more. or "I'm not sure...he may wean by college, or if not, he'll come home on weekends!" End of stoopid question...as family/rude guest slithers through the crack in the floor. Kathleen Kathleen B. Bruce, BSN, IBCLC co-owner Lactnet,Corgi-L,TLC, Indep. Consultant http://together.net/~kbruce/kbbhome.html LACTNET Archives http://library.ummed.edu/lsv/archives/lactnet.html