Anyone with info on visitation issues when bf is involved please help. One of my employees is having problems with her childs father. he has never been involved in her life at all ( from what it sounds like to me) but now wants regular visitation of their daughter. Apparently his parents were paying the child support while he was in grad school and now he is out and is having to pay this himself. he wants her for weekends etc.. has a new wife and child now and apparently the wife is an alcoholic. Besides the fact that my employee just doesnt want her daughter in that environment, she is nursing ( child is 20 months) I need facts on the benefits of extended nursing and the possible probs for this todler if seperated for long lenghts of time. I am probably going to testify on her behalf as an expert. thanks very much. Jessica Donahue RN IBCLC