In a message dated 97-02-20 15:06:24 EST, you write: << "certain je ne sais quoi">> <<Inquiring minds are working overtime trying to figure out exactly what Jack Newman means by that>> >> I think this attractiveness is in the same category as the nice little rounded belly that will never be washboard flat again (if it ever was ) after childbearing. It is wonderful to have these compliments and you can be sure they come from mature men (and I don't mean age here) - and I am happy to count my husband among them. Laurie Wheeler