Margot- I know this is obvious, but does this mom have an oversupply? I had spontaneous (and sloppy) MERs ever 20 minutes or so with my first for MANY months. But what I didn't know then, but happily learned by the time I had my second was that I had just too much of a good thing. -Debi Ferrarello, who changed clothes frequently and slept with a bath towel instead of nsg pads for more than a year;)