Anna- I once had a woman who's career is to take mammograms. She touches breasts daily. Her first child had awful allergies, whom she bottlefed. She also wondered how she would ever BF, so she just planned to pump and bottlefeed EBM. She did come to my class. We talked further and found out she was concerned about modesty, even with family members. I encouraged to her to just try BFg, even if only for a week. She started out in the bedroom, but said after only one day, she was tired of looking at those four walls and her family would just have to get used to her nursing! She nursed at least 6 months, which I consider a great success in her case. Keep encouraging and supporting. It really helps. -- Lechia Davis, RNC, ACCE, IBCLC Maternal Instincts Danville, VA http://ns.gamewood.net:80/~maternal/