I was up so late last night 0240 EDT and i can't remember if i was dreaming or not but i was reading or dreaming about alot of neat posts on infant-parent co-sleeping (that i wanted to save because) a SIDS investigator just spoke at a meeting at our CPHU, Telling the staff FERVENTLY and with great vigor "to counsel all parents to refrain from sleeping in bed with their babes because it was so deadly and the most common factor found in SIDS" here in central FLA(not!) some one give me an idea what month i read these neat posts...that have vanished into thin air.... thanks...i cleaned house (mail) alot last night & i can't believe i lost stuff that important. ruthy, still sleeping with Big Tim and my baby tim (9yrs) he has a heart condition and i couldn't bear to lose him while he was alone, his cardiologist says his heart could just stop beating any time, any where, but if it's at night he won't be alone............ His big sisters crawl in bed with us all at about 0500 every day just before morning routines and after nightmares and such, i think it helps us make up faster and not hold grudges when they scuffle because We still have some sibling rivalry that rivals "BRAVEHEART" and we (mommy and daddy bear) never "make-out" in our own room and i love it that way,,,beds are soooo,BOOOOOORING !