Jane Bradshaw gave such good advice on handling E--o and other parenting regimes from Fundamentalist viewpoints. Excellent!! Now all we need is a viewpoint/rationale with which non-Christian LLL and LCs can respond. Along the lines Jane presented, which included information about the infant's stomach size, I personally like the concept of taking God's design of our human bodies as testament for what nature/God wanted. If god wanted moms to nurse their infants only on a schedule, why are our breasts responsive to baby's needs 24 hours a day? Even if we put our babies on "schedules" and these schedules are allowed to become set, putting the baby to the breast at other times will still bring on letdown/milk production. Why would God/nature devise a system so responsive to the child's needs if what was intended was that the mother limit feedings to certain times of the day? Anyone else had a good approach for a non-christian to use? Margaret Ann Margaret Ann Paxton "If you don't know your options, you don't have any."