Margy, You are not un-90's!!! Rooming in should be around forever! I was not allowed to have my first three children with me and was too ignorant to argue about it. BUT, I know that I would have recognized my baby anywhere! Had they brought me a different baby, I feel sure I would have known. So glad the last three were with me from delivery until we left together a few hours later. I agree that the mother should have gone on to breastfeed her own baby. Kay Hagan-Haller ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~ I am only one, but I am one. I cannot do everything, but I can do something; and what I should do and can do, by the grace of God, I will do. --unknown author ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~ [log in to unmask] mother to Kris(21), Meredith(15), Ryan(13), Matt(10), Melissa(8), and Andy(5)