Diane, I have no idea what *I, personally,* would do. One thing I might consider is to pump and pasturize my own milk.......otherwise I would probably just breastfeed and let life and whatever take its course. It is so hard for me to imagine having a child and not bf......and there is so much to consider as far as the research so far.... IMHO, Natalie Shenk, BS IBCLC Findlay, OH USA