My computer just ate today's second digest, before I could read it. I feel very much like I left the room during and important part of the lecture and now hesitate to ask questions. However, thanks to Kathy D., (:>) ) I laid awake last nite trying to figure this out. You mentioned that in much of the world sex isn't even pleasurable. How is that possible? I understand about learned behavior and so forth, but it seems that, at least certain aspects of sex, are *objectively* pleasurable. I just have to know what you mean. I'm asking publicly, cuz I *can't* be the only one wondering. BTW,--changing subject-- I nursed my boy baby slightly longer than either of his sisters. Thanks, Nancy