Piggy-backing on K Dettwyler's good questions for the mom who says she "has to" go two two brfeeds/day, have you considered attachment issues? I find often that those moms who, by all objective measurements, are doing well with brfding but express doubts about the whole process, have psychological issues that aren't being articulated. It may be that she fears involving herself in this wonderfully intimate relationship only to have to leave it for work. That's only one of a long list of things that may be troubling her. Just a thought....Nancy